Jenna Dewan She reflects on the lessons she's learned over the past year after settling her divorce Channing Tatum.
“In the past year I've learned that life has a way of bringing you exactly what you need to learn at just the right time,” Dewan, 44, wrote in an essay. Personal essay for InStylewhich was published on Wednesday, January 22. “Transitions weren't just changes — they were invitations to grow, adapt to discomfort, and discover strength I didn't know I had.”
Diwan highlighted 2024 as a Specific year of growthShe added: “I learned a lot about myself, my resilience and my voice. I've learned to let go of over-adaptation in my relationships and sit with discomfort. What it really means to trust.”
She added: “I can truly say that I welcome every challenge with the question: 'Why is this here and what is this going to teach me?'” Sometimes things break because you no longer fit into this bowl and that's okay.
Tatum, 44, and Dewan began dating in 2006 after they met while filming a movie Escalation. They married in 2009 and welcomed their daughter Everly in 2013. After nearly a decade of marriage, Tatum and Dewan They announced their separation In 2018.
“We have lovingly chosen to separate as a couple,” the couple wrote in a statement at the time. “We fell deeply in love many years ago and went on a magical journey together. Nothing has ever changed about how much we love each other, but love is a beautiful adventure that takes us down different paths right now. There are no secrets or salacious events at the basis of our decision – just two close friends.” They realize it's time to take some space and help each other live the happiest, most fulfilling lives possible.
Six months later, Diwan filed for divorce. The former couple were declared legally single in 2019 but then got into a legal row over their finances. to Magic Mike privilege.
More than six years have passed since Tatum and Dewan broke up Their divorce was finalized in September 2024, with a final mandatory settlement conference set for October 2024. Along with Everly's partnership with Tatum, Dewan shares son Callum, 4, and daughter Rhiannon, 7 months, With his fiancée Steve Kazee.
“I've realized that new beginnings don't wait for calendars or big announcements. They happen in the quiet choices: forgiving yourself, showing up again, and trusting the process even when you feel hopeless.” The beauty of life is in its imperfections — the laughter through the tears, the moments of doubt that Make room for clarity. When you embrace the journey instead of clinging to the destination, you begin to surprise yourself with more joy than you ever imagined.
Diwan stressed that she is “not looking for perfection, but rather for presence” in the new year, pledging this You no longer retreat in life. “Every new chapter is a gift waiting to be revealed,” Dewan wrote. “I'm so grateful for my family, the love and presence of my partner Steve, and the adventures we'll have this year. I see some travel, lots of family laughs, and most importantly, maybe finally a wedding!”