Cameron Diaz and Benji Madden Credit to their strong partnership for treatment.
“So treatment is a big thing in our family, thank God,” Diaz (52 years old) said in the Tuesday, December 10, episode of the Sahr program. Joel Madden's “The artist is friendlyPodcast. “This is what we rely on, so you have that commitment to work on it.”
Diaz explained that she and Benji, 45, use therapy to prevent themselves from doing “the same thing over and over again” while trying to figure out how to get a different end result on a problem. Instead, the couple uses therapy to self-reflect on what led to the event.
“Why didn't it work? How can I make it work? What's my role? What's the other person's job?” I reflected. “Let's catch ourselves and go to the next attempt more prepared and hopefully come up with a different result.”
For his part, Joel echoed similar sentiments that he and his wife shared Nicole Richie They too Avid therapy users.
“We either solve something or create a new understanding of a new process together,” the Good Charlotte singer said. “It's like going to the gym and learning new moves, building on strength.”
Diaz also explained that from her perspective, Both partners They must be fully committed to each other and their families in order to maintain strong bonds.
“It comes down to wanting to do it. You can't be married and have a family if… both people aren't 100 percent every day. One can't be 99 years old and the other can be 100 years old.”
The actress added that even on a couple's worst days, that strong foundation is still needed.
“Even if you're mad at each other and don't want to see each other (or) are tired of each other, there's still a 100 percent commitment to marriage and partnership and getting things done in the family,” she said. . “If it's not 100%, it won't work if one person has a disability.”
Benji and Diaz married in 2015 after nearly a year of dating. Couple sharing Radix's daughter4 , and Cardinal's son8 months. Diaz gushed on Tuesday, saying she was “most grateful” for her and her family's marriage to Benji.
“It was the best thing that ever happened to me. I was older than (Benji) because I had never found him…I had been there a lot longer than him.” “You know how much we've grown together over the last decade and how much we've accomplished. I don't know how any of us would have done it without each other.