Despite being two of Hollywood's biggest stars, Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds They prefer to keep the lives of their four children out of the spotlight.
“We try to give them Live as normal a life as possible. I try not to impose on them that their childhood is different from mine or my wife’s childhood.” Hollywood Reporter. “We both grew up very working class, and I remember when they were very young, I would say or think, like, 'Oh my God, I never would have gotten a gift like that when I was a kid,' or, 'I wouldn't have had the luxury of eating out,' or Anything else. Then I realized that this was not their bag full of stones that they had to carry.
Reynolds' quotes about the couple's “working class” upbringing sparked some discussion online, with Blake's parents saying, Ernie and Elaine LivelyThey both worked in the entertainment industry throughout their childhood. Blake's four siblings – Robin, Lori, Eric and Jason – Everyone also grew up to be actors.
Meanwhile, Ryan is the youngest between his parents Tammy and James Chester Reynolds“Four children. During his childhood in Vancouver, Canada, James worked as a food wholesaler and police officer while Tammy worked in retail.
Ryan said THR His children with Blake are “very connected to gratitude and understanding of the world enough to have a strong sense of empathy,” adding: “Those are the things that I think (might indicate) that we're doing well — if our kids can empathize with other people and other kids. But yeah It's different, when I was a kid, I used to put up with it, go out of the house and come back at sunset, which I can't even imagine now.
Ryan and Blake became parents with the birth of their daughter James in 2014, followed by daughters Inez and Betty in 2016 and 2019, respectively. They welcomed their son Olin in 2023.
Scroll down for the couple's quotes about raising their children:
June 2016
“Ryan had a nice, normal upbringing, and we want our kids to have the same normal life we had,” Blake said. Marie Claire before welcoming baby No. 2. “We never want to rob them of what we had, because we would feel really selfish.”
December 2019
“She wants to be an actressRyan said of eldest daughter James during an appearance on the show The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon. “I explained to her. I said, 'Look, this is a huge burden on your nervous system, having to process all this attention and information.' Otherwise you develop all these unhealthy coping mechanisms. She looked at me like she didn't know what I was talking about.” .
Despite his concerns, Ryan said he would ultimately be “okay” with James acting out in the future. “But being a child actor in movies and stuff? It's like another ball of wax,” he added.
May 2020
At the height of the Black Lives Matter movement, Blake spoke candidly about how she and her husband planned to teach their children about systemic racism “differently than the way our parents taught us” long ago. Instagram share. “We talk about our bias, our blindness, and our mistakes,” she wrote. “We look back and see a lot of mistakes that caused us to deeply examine who we are and who we want to become. They led us down tremendous paths of education.”
November 2020
Note that He loves “being a girl's father.” Ryan said Access Hollywood One of his and Blake's biggest parental priorities was to “be as present as possible” to their children. “We are inseparable as I shoot films and my wife shoots films and we travel everywhere and we all go together,” he shared. “I think the best thing about it is that we don't spend a lot of time away from each other. I spend a lot of time with my girls.”
June 2021
In an interview with Entertainment tonightRyan revealed that his children inspired him to be an advocate Mental health awareness. “I have three daughters at home and part of my job as a parent is to model behaviors and examples of what it means to feel sad and examples of what it means to feel anxious or angry,” he explained. “That there is room for all of these things.”
He added: “The house I grew up in, it wasn't really designed for me. This doesn't mean that my parents were neglectful, but they belong to a different generation.”
March 2022
Reynolds said additional He and Blake are not “ashamed” to discuss current events with their children, despite their young ages. “Anytime there's anything, like a big news story, or something epic and historical — and God knows we've seen a lot of those over the last four or five years — I usually just say, 'Do you have any questions about this?' “I don't really feel at this age that it's a good idea to add my own perspective or narrative on the matter. I just want to know what they're feeling and thinking, and that tends to work well.
May 2024
In a joint interview with Deadpool Wolverine com. costar Hugh Jackman to the peopleRyan revealed that he attributes his anxiety to this Which makes his upbringing “better.” “You focus less on yourself and more on your children,” he explained. … Now I love that I have anxiety, and I love that I have anxiety because when I see my kids struggling with some of that, which is probably genetic, I know how to deal with it in a compassionate way, that allows them to actually feel seen. I know I can't just fix it. And I can communicate all of these things to them and with them. “I’m always grateful for that.”
July 2024
Ryan opened up about his and Blake's home life, revealing that their kids “can't even sleep unless they have kids.” They're in our bed. And he said to “Not Skinny But Not Fat” podcast.: “My wife always says, ‘They're all under our roof now. The whole family is under our roof now we have them all. This is a temporary thing and not an endless resource.
He continued: “So (my advice to other parents is) embrace the chaos of everything because it gets to you. And it's okay to say, “Okay, I'm dying here.” Because this will happen every two days.”
September 2024
“Parents today are very different. We are very softRyan quipped during an appearance at HubSpot's INBOUND technology conference in Boston the people. “I don't scream. I grew up with like — it was crazy, it was an improvised militia. … Now it's like I can look at all the resources available to me for parenting and remind myself to be completely compassionate.”
December 2024
When Ryan was asked about Deadpool's future in the Marvel Cinematic Universe, he revealed that his status as a father could impact his superhero's return to the big screen. “It's swallowing up my whole life. You can't take your hand off the stick all the way through development, through post-production to marketing and promotion, and then, it just kind of 'stops'.” diverse's The series “Actors on Actors”..
as a result of dead poolWith his busy schedule, Ryan said he didn't want to become one An “absent” father.. “I never want to miss things. I kind of die inside when I see their faces and they're having a competition or they have a sports thing or something like that and I miss it,” he said.